Well, well, if you are reading this, then a warm welcome to my blog. I realize that the net has no shortage of blogs detailing the ills of feminism, and in my opinion that is a good thing. The more anti-feminist blogs that pop-up, the better it is for the men of America (and just about any Westernized nation.) It means the truth is spreading and more and more men are wising up. Good, it's about time, but there still needs to be alot of work done, and if by sharing my day to day experiences with other like minded individuals will help spread the word, then so be it, i'll play my role.
So what makes this blog any different and why should you read it? Well, this blog is all about MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) but I feel as though that most of the bloggers and outspoken men for MRA are usually in their 40's and 50's and this is to be expected since they have experienced alot that life has to offer, so they can offer their insight. I've learned alot from them and will continue to learn from them. Wisdom comes with age and I won't make the same mistakes they made. Nevertheless, I feel like there is a void. Where is the voice for the younger generation? No matter what a 50 yr old has to say about MRA, the average 22 yr old will not be able to relate. We haven't been taken to the cleaners in divorce court, we don't pay child support and alimony, and we don't have kids that hate us. From that respect, we have learned from the mistakes of the older and wiser men in MRA, and I thank them for their guidance and candor, but it is always nice to have someone closer to your age bracket and someone who has more in common with you spreading the same message.
This is where I come in. I'm a 25 yr old professional male doing the 9 to 5 corporate grind. I work in the financial district in Manhattan. Born and raised in NYC all my life. From the beginning, I knew that there was something definately wrong with girls even back in High School, and that is when it all started. You see, the problem was that I was a "nice guy" always have been. I was raised to treat and respect women, as I have 3 sisters and my mom was/is a saint, so from birth I had the "girls are made from sugar and spice" mentality. I was chivalrous to a fault.
The problems started in high school. I was always studious when it came to school work and I genuinely liked to read. My father is a Professor, so reading books was something that was encouraged from an early age. Apparently, it's a conflict of interest to be studious, like school, like to read and be black at the same time. The insults were non-stop, especially from black girls. I heard it all, uncle tom, uppitty negro, oreo etc. All for the simple fact that I actually came to school to learn and do work. I spoke like how a normal human being who speaks English is supposed to speak, and they said I was "talkin' white." One is not black unless you speak like an illiterate buffoon with a speech impediment. This really messed up my phsyche because I actually thought there was something wrong with me. For a few months, I tried to be their definition of "uber black". That was what the girls wanted clearly. It was pathetic, that wasn't me. I like to read Homer, not freestyle rap. In a sense, I had no identity. So, I took up football, I liked football.
To stay on the high school football squad, you needed to maintain a 3.0 GPA. No problem for me at all, this was a breeze. In most places, being on the football team would get you accolades, not for me. It brought more ridicule. You see, most of the black guys got kicked off the team for having terrible grades, they couldn't maintain a 3.0 GPA, which in of itself was a joke because teachers did their best to "inflate" athletes grades. They simply did not give a damn about school and never even went to class, they cut class completely, which was odd to me because they woke up, got dressed and came to school, but would just stand outside, loitering and looking fly in their sweet clothes. Long story short, I was an uncle tom and house negro because I actually maintained my GPA and remained on the team. In an ironic way, flunking and being kicked off the team was seen as "black" by them and was a right of passage, I was not authentic because I was still on the team and got along with the white players. But the teasing was nothing major from guys, it was the girls. With black girls I was too white. With many white girls I was too nice. I've actually been dumped for being nice believe it or not. The notion of that is mind boggling.
Despite it all, I had my fair share of relationships in high school, some good, most bad. I wrote it off as just juvenile behavior.
On to college I went, I think I snapped my neck from looking at all the beautiful women on campus. However, with regards to the attitudes of the girls, nothing changed much. I remember a chemistry class I had 3 times a week, and it included a 4 hour lab to boot. I sat next to this pretty girl. We were friends, or so I thought. I helped her with her assignments, correction, I did her assignments. Seeing someone for an entire semester several times a week for hours would constitute at the very least an acquantance relationship. I'd see her in the street and she would not even acknowledge me, she'd just keep walking, like I didn't exist. The semester finally ended, I figured maybe I look different in class, different setting than the street perhaps. Until the next semester when I took calculus. Lo and behold, she's there. And she grabs a chair next to me and is chatting me up like i'm a long lost friend. Took me by surprise since she can't even bother to acknowledge me, but now i'm her best friend. I thought she was genuine, until she said, "I'm not really a math person you know....like, can you help me with the assignment?" I told her I wasn't a math person either. She never spoke to me or sat near me again.
I won't bore you to death with all my ex-girlfriend problems in college, but I will talk about my most recent girlfriend, or rather ex-girlfriend. She's from the Phillipines, I met her at Barnes & Nobles of all places, we struck up a conversation and exchanged numbers. She had to go back home to bury a relative, but we kept in contact the entire time. She came back tothe states to live with her uncle and his family and is a nursing student. The passion was instant and intense. We were peas in a pod, inseperable. This girl was awesome, but her attitude changed and out of the blue too, hit me like a ton of bricks. Apparantely, slicing off a mans penis is justified and hilarious. This was once a timid, shy, soft spoken girl, and a little over a year and half in the states, she's transformed into an "assertive" (i.e. bitch) girl who thinks John Wayne Bobbitt had it coming and that he deserves to have his penis cut off. I can't be with someone who thinks male genital mutilation is funny.
Speaking of irony, I take the subway to work everyday and I often see many of the girls who used to insult me and never gave me the time of day back in high school. It's a sad site. These girls are no older than 25, pushing strollers, have 3 or 4 kids out of wedlock from 3 or 4 different guys. Kids don't look like siblings or share the same last name. It's totally hilarious to see them, obese, stretch marks all over their bodies, tacky clothing, uneducated, screaming kids and dead broke. To those same women, I am now a prize. The thugs and players they preferred are in jail or bailed on them and their bastard kids. Strange, they see me and they want to "catch up on old times" lol Amazing what a tailored suit and career can do ain't it? I guess that's not too white for them anymore. The sad part about it is that they often ask me if I have kids, and I tell them I don't, they look at me like i'm strange for not having several children out of wedlock already. Apparantely, i'm the exception to the rule for being a single black man with no kids. If I hear black women complain about there being no good black men available, i'm going to vomit. I've always been there, they just didn't want me. Now I have accomplished something, earn a fairly decent living, their eyes are lighting up and now they have time for me. I'm not a big rap fan, but I think Mike Jones said it best.... "back then they didn't want me, now i'm hot, they're all on me." It feels so good to now diss these heffers. Last week, one girl was and I quote in her words "In love with my Breitling Hercules watch" and wanted to go out with me. Wow, dating someone based on his watch, where do I sign up for such a classy dame like that?
Many things are fucked up for the younger generation of men in America, and through my experiences, thoughts and ideas, I will express them on this blog. I'll also look at it as mild therapy. So come along for the ride and welcome!!
Youngbuck