Divorced women are swelling the poverty rolls

No, I haven't gone crazy and that's not my opinion. That's the opinion of Carol Ann Wilson who penned the article "How to Help Older Divorcing Women Avoid The Bag Lady Blues" in the June issue of the Journal of Financial Planning.

Bag ladies....

According to her, a 50/50 split in a divorce is unfair to women. Her reasons?

The courts are trying to split marital property 50-50, yet they traditionally overlook one major asset of a marriage: the husband's career.

Wilson, who specializes in divorce issues and has written several books on the subject, asserts that in traditional marriages, the wife is not getting a big enough piece of her husband's future earnings potential.

"Property is divided just once, but career assets continue to produce income regularly for years," she says.

A 50-50 split might not be fair for the woman who followed a lesser career path to raise children while her husband went full tilt, gaining seniority at work and earning benefits like health and disability insurance and vacation pay.

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Seriously, is there a reason why a man should get married these days? I mean, not only do these asset hungry bitches want everything, they want everything you haven't earned yet!! They are robbing you of your future. What right does anyone have to your future earning potential? And who the hell determines what my future earning potential is? What if I get layed off? Do I still have to make payments to my ex-wife based on what I potentially could be making? Why should I? I thought we got divorced, so why is she still in my back pocket? Ugh, i'm sick of this shit.

The grass is not greener on the other side

I have alot of friends of different races and nationalities, and when the topic comes to women, there is always this "the grass is greener" over there mentality. For instance, alot of my white friends prefer Asian women, they all have yellow fever. The reason they give? They are more feminine, gentle and lady like. It's kind of funny to see a once beer drinking, chicken wing-loving former frat boy all of a sudden get into anime, weird Japanese RPG games and want to quit his job to move to Japan to become an English teacher because they just love "Asian Culture". That's nonsense, it's just a smokescreen for easy access to Asian pussy, which is their sole driving force. I've gotten a few guys to admit that it was indeed the reason for their interest in Asian culture.

Alot of my black friends, prefer white women, the reason? They say that white women are not as aggressive and hard to handle like black women.

My Asian friends tell me they can't get dates with Asian women because they all want white guys. They also say they can't get dates with white and latina women because they don't like them and they in general do not want to date black women.

My hispanic friends don't care, as long as she's ready, willing and able...isn't that right Ricky? {inside joke}

My opinion? Women are women. I've dated women from different ethnicities, and other than their ethnicity, it was pretty much the same thing. The grass ain't greener on the other side. Women act how society dictates they act. I for one do not buy into the Asian/ Eastern Euro women are demure and sweeter bullshit. Back when the typical American family was led by a patriach, before the feminist movement, women here were probably no less sweeter or demure than their foreign counterparts. Culture dictates behavior. Remove that sweet, demure woman from her patriach centered culture and it will only be a matter of time before she too gets infected with the feminist bug. The ideal woman is a woman that resides in a male friendly country, but with many nations emulating American and Western Euro fashion, attitudes and ideals, the well of quality women will continue to dry.

Drinking with Bob

http://drinkingwithbob.blogspot.com/

Drinking with Bob is another blog that I enjoy viewing from time to time. His blog is a little different because he doesn't write articles. He has these short 1 minute rants on society at large and the stupidity that runs through it. He's not an MRA or anything (not to my knowledge) but I like the guy and he's hit the nail on the head in many of his angry rants.

Some really good ones.....

http://blip.tv/file/get/DrinkingWithBob-MYSPACEIsResponsibleForAllOfTheWorldsProblems694.mov

http://blip.tv/file/get/DrinkingWithBob-GirlWhoHadSexWithChristieBrinkleysHusband865.mov

http://blip.tv/file/get/DrinkingWithBob-DatelineNBCHatesChildMolesters642.mov

http://www.archive.org/download/post_pardem/post.mov

http://www.archive.org/download/skells/skell.mov

Will update shortly

Receieved a couple of e-mails. Yes i'm still alive, but have been really busy with work. I will update shortly. Thanks for the concern, I appreciate it.

Never argue with women

“Don't argue! You cannot win, you cannot beat a woman in a arguement. It's impossble you will not win. Cause men, we are handicapped when it comes to arguing because we have a need to make sense” - Chris Rock

I don't understand why some guys even bother to engage in any sort of debate with women. It's an exercise in futility, because a woman cannot "lose" an arguement. There is no gracefully bowing out when you are clearly wrong or have been outwitted if you are a woman, they simply change the subject or shame the people they are arguing with.

Case in point, last week sunday was my friends 26th birthday and he had a little barbeque get together and invited some friends over. Another mutual friend of ours was there with his girlfriend, and she was like usual, breaking his balls in public. She wanted him to go pick-up her friend at Newark airport. He didn't want to. Like a normal human being, he wanted to hang out with friends he's known for most of his life, not pick up people he barely knows at the Airport, wasting gas and toll money. Well, she wasn't having it. She called him a jerk, that he likes his friends more than he likes her (he does - can't say I blame him....lol) He told his girl that he was not her friends personal driver and why can't she take a cab? Why does he have to miss his friends birthday that's he's known since grade school to pick up a girl he doesn't really know at the airport because she knows her, and that's besides the point because he is already here.

Her response? You and your friends are such losers, and they probably all have the same baby dick that you have. Then she storms out. What that had to do with anything, hell if I know, but like many women they just have to have the last word. Relevance and sense is not part of an arguement, as long as they have the last word, then they are victorious. Well, we let her have her victory, and continued on like nothing happened. Watched the Spain vs Portugal game in it's high def glory, drank some beers, had some steak, fish and burgers and played some Fight Night 06.