American black women still complaining

When I came back to the US, what struck me was how much nothing had changed. In fact, it got worse. The women actually got fatter. I think American men don't really know how huge their female counterparts are, until they venture abroad, and then return. It really is something else. When I was in Bratislava, you could almost immediately spot the American female tourist. She was typically at least a size 14, and wore tacky jeans or jorts (jean shorts), and sneakers. This was the American woman. Fat, frumpy, poorly dressed and wearing sneakers. They stuck out like a sore thumb.

Anyway, another reminder of how things remained the same was American black women yapping about "no good black men" around, how they are single etc. They are complaining even more now to the media. I just have to laugh at this. I spent an extensive amount of time in West Africa (Ghana, Cameroon, Nigeria, Senegal) and South American countries with sizable Afro-Latino/black populations (Costa Rica, Honduras, Colombia) and the difference in those black women and American black women is staggering. To the American black men lamenting their pond scum options of black women in the US, may I remind you that most black people are NOT in America? Get a passport and travel. Become a global citizen.

The main disparity in foreign black women and their American counterparts is attitude. From my stay in several West African countries, I found the local women to be highly charming, astute, hospitable and very educated. I mean, educated on a level that most people in America could only dream of. We need to turn off western images and news media about people in the world, Africa in particular. Your news is lying to you. Everyone there isn't poor, isn't in a jungle, isn't starving etc. The only place I saw animals were in a preserve, animal park and zoo. To get back to the women, I noticed that almost all of them were in school or working towards advanced degrees. If they left their country, it was usually to further their studies, and return home or find work. The difference between them and American black women is that they are not their degrees. For them, it's an end to a means. For American black women, they become their degrees. They remind you they have them. Funny part about it is that these African women actually have advanced degrees, many of them in the sciences, math, and engineering fields, so it wasn't a powder fluff curriculum like womyn studies, liberal arts or some such nonsense.

The other major disparity was in appearance. No fatties. No $1,000 weaves. No stupid tattoos. No baby daddies or kids out of wedlock. It really is something to behold. Women who are unspoiled by feminism. Women who are smart, kind, loyal, fit, chaste and beautiful. Did I mention no tattoos? It seems most American women under 35 are sporting some form of ghastly ink.

So coming from this, I do find it hilarious that American black women are complaining about the lack of quality black men. The women complaining are assuming that they deserve a quality man in the first place, and that they are in fact quality women. Here's the reality, a demure, beautiful, quality woman will have no problems finding a man. If you're a woman and you do have these problems, you need an honest evaluation of yourself. When was the last time you heard foreign black women complaining about their inability to find good men? That's right, never.

My Return

I've been gone from this blog for a few years. I am no longer a "young buck". I'm now a man in his early 30s. I'm amazed by the fact that despite this blog laying dormant for several years, it's still been receiving a lot of views and comments.

So where have I been you might ask? I've been all over the world. I lived like a nomad. I just traveled. Part of being a single man who is fiscally responsible is that you can "disappear" for long periods of time, without a worry of how you will afford to live. I did this after I was unceremoniously dumped on my ass by my company a few years ago, despite being one of the few people who actually did hard work. They call it "downsizing", but that's just a kind word for fired. In a company that is almost 40% female, I find it odd that almost every one let go was a man. The HR departments, and their over-inflated staff remained, complete with superfluous salaries. Mostly women might I add, with the occasional flamboyant homosexual thrown in for "diversity". They are all there, filing and polishing their nails, gossiping and taking 2 hour lunches. Those people remained. The actual hardworkers (men) all got let go. Funny how that is. I'm not kidding, almost everyone let go was a man. That defies the law of statistics.

Anyway, while traveling, the last thing on my mind was blogging, or even using a computer, outside of basic email and checking my portfolio, bank statements etc. I plan to blog more on my travels, especially my eye opening stay in several African and South American countries. Europe is a wash. It's done, even Central and Eastern Europe. They are catching the "feminist bug". I did have a good time in Bratislava.

MRA = Misogyny, Homophobia and Racism?

I got an e-mail from someone named Heather not long ago. She says she reads my blog regularly because she finds it real and from the heart. Well, I can take a compliment, but at the core of it, isn't the MRA movement real and from the heart? Where else could it be from? It's about the conservation of everything male. That is very real. However, I really wonder how much of my blog, "Heather" really reads, because outside of her opening line dazzling me with compliments, the shaming language started. She asked me why I hate women? Why I was homophobic? Did I want to eventually get married. If I would ever get married with my outlook on women. She then states that men who usually hate women and gays are probably racist against minorities, and I quote, "most likely hates blacks, hispanics and every other shade other than white." About how she intimidates men like me because she is college educated and has a great career.

Well, i'm going to have to call you out on your bullshit Heather. I'm not homopobic. Nothing about homosexuals leaves me afraid. I'm definately not a racist towards anyone, and most definately am not racist towards minorities or hate blacks. If you actually read my blog like you claim, you would actually know that I am black. Do I hate women? I certainly don't, but where the hell have the respectable women gone? All that seems to be left are skanks, whores, golddiggers and entitlement princesses. What I don't like is what the vast majority of women in the western world have become. They are lecherous vipers coiled to strike. Be it in court for alimony, division of assets that are not theirs, child support and custody, to casual dating. These vipers view men like they are mice, that we are there to be devoured to fill their insatiable appetite. To be cast aside like trash. Men are nothing but wallets and sperm donors. That is essentially it. Women do not respect men. I read alot of newspapers because of the line of work i'm in, and it never ever fails. Every health article has to do with the welfare of women. If by chance an article is about the health of men, it will morph into how it affects women. I was reading an article about prostate cancer in older men, and somehow, someway the article turned into the lives of women living with men who have prostate cancer. The men dying from cancer became second fiddle to women in their lives. I have yet to come across an article about the trials and tribulations of men living with women with breast or ovarian cancer. Funny how that is. Men do not matter in this society

I can't speak for everyone in the MRA movement, but in a perfect world I would love to have a wife and raise a family, and all that good stuff, but when the divorce rate hovers at about 60%, I would be a fool not to be apprehensive. The environment in the western hemisphere is hostile to men and is not optimal for raising families. A wife should be a compliment to me, someone who wants to be with me, not take advantage of me. Women are more concerned about being competitive with men, rather than complimenting them. They should not be shocked when they are treated like adversaries by men, rather than companions. They chose to delve into adversarial combat, so don't complain about it. Someone has to lose in combat, and in the end it won't be men. We have no biological clock, and we can cope with being alone. I have yet to meet a woman content at the future of being a childless, cat loving, spinster. I will get better with age, I will accumulate more assets, I will be desirable because of it. I won't go through menopause. I will have upward mobility socially. Women; you're just going to get old, lonely and sexually frustrated.

Good day, Heather.

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Michael Strahan - the latest victim of the fematrix

Well, Michael Strahan just had his ass handed to him in court on a silver platter. He was ordered to pay his wife 15.3 million dollars, over half of his net worth and 20% of his salary for the length of their marriage. So after giving her more than half of his net worth, he has to pay her 20% of his salary on top of that as well. How is this fair? Wasn't she enjoying the lifestyle and all the trapping of wealth during the marriage? How can people do this with a straight face. Why do these athletes and well to do men continue to get married to these loser bitches? Who the hell was Jean Strahan before she married Michael? What did she have and what were her accomplishments? Earlier this week it was Michael Jordan.

Guys, just say no to marriage.

Merry Christmas - Are you on the down low?

So I went to my cousins house for Christmas dinner yesterday. To my dismay, my aunt (his mom) was there. She's the one who is always trying to hook me up with women and just doesn't know when enough is enough. Anyway, it's Christmas. It's supposed to be a happy, mellow time with family. We watched Miami beat the lakers. We watched the Cowboys lose, so all is well. Until dinner. My cousin's fiance was there, so I guess this sparked a light bulb in his moms head. She began her crap again.

"So, who is the special woman in your life?" "Why don't you have a girlfriend?"

"I haven't seen you with anyone since you left that China girl." (She refers to my ex-girlfriend who is Filipina as a China girl, even though she knows her name and knows she's not Chinese - Yup, she's a bigot as well)

"I know plenty educated black girls that would love to be with you." (Just what I need, a career woman!)

"I gotta ask you son, are you gay? You're not on the downlow are you?"

At this point and time, it doesn't even anger me anymore. She's way too predictable. She says the same thing everytime verbatim. I thought maybe at Christmas, she could be a rational human being and not verbally assault me. I thought wrong. It has no effect really, as I rarely see her, maybe 3 or 4 times a year. She tells me she's asking because she cares about me. Nothing says Christmas like asking your nephew if he's a homosexual over dinner.

The Christmas Party

Yup. it's that time of year, it's time for the annual ass kissing...errr...excuse me, the company Christmas party. These company parties are the most bizarre and awkward functions because for the most part, people don't kow how to conduct themselves. Oh, they think they are doing a great job, but it truly is pathetic. The entire point of a party is to have a good time with people you like. But, the corporate climate is so strained that no one even dances, and if they do, they dance a good 6 inches or more apart because they don't want to "brush up" against each other and have the other person get the wrong message. Why even bother going to a party at all? Nothing says a good time like sexual harassment in the back of your mind.

Most of the people who actually still go to the Christmas parties are new hires, management, admin people and people who want free drinks. New hires go because they use it as an opportunity to let people see their faces and network with management. Basically, a giant dose of brown nosing and ass kissing. I never did that, and I never will, it's very obvious and I have dignity. Management shows up because if they didn't, then nobody would, and they usually give their nonsensical speech about us being a team etc. Admin people show up, because what the fuck else do they have to do? They like to feel important and like to think that they are an asset to the company, so anything company related, they jump in head first. Last but not least are the people that just go for drinks. Most of them are alright, they get their drinks and some grub and leave, but every year, there is always that person, usually a female too. That person that couldn't handle their liquor. That person that drinks too much, and completely embarasses themselves in front of everyone. Never fails. There is always a story about it, the next work day.

Me, i'll be playing Gears of War and Call of Duty 3. Evening well spent.